I see why the patriarchy exists

I (20F) stay with my boyfriend who is currently unemployed. I pay for the rent and he plans meals, cooks and does the dishes. On the weekends, sometimes I do the laundry but that’s p much all I ever do. He even does our grocery shopping. I insist on cooking but he wants to do it since he’s more health conscious than I am. And guess what, this is the most relaxed I have ever been. It’s almost like living with my parents. I have almost no stress. I come home, hit the gym and just chill. Like, this is the life. I get it now. This is why patriarchy exists. I want my boyfriend to get the job he deserves, but I can’t help but think how easy my life currently is. Edit: I can’t believe I’m having to explain this. But I mean, I see why men love a stay at home wife who handles everything and all they do is go to work. It’s so much easier not having household responsibilities.