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Is my decision correct?

I got married to a man through a matrimonial site. We were from different states, and he and his family promised he would move to my city within 1-2 years after marriage. Initially, everything seemed good; he was sweet and we talked day and night. However, on the day of our engagement, his younger sister caused a scene over a small issue, and he made me apologize to her. After that, he only called at night for intimate video calls and rarely communicated during the day. He claimed he was busy and inexperienced with talking to girls. He avoided discussing his future plans and finances. Despite my reservations, we got married, hoping things would improve. Two days after the wedding, I overheard him telling his mother he didn't intend to move to my city. His mother suggested having a child to force me to relocate. When I confronted him, he denied it and became angry, accusing me of infidelity and badmouthing me to my parents. He dragged me on our honeymoon despite my poor health and was rude throughout the trip. He acts innocent and kind in front of others but behaves poorly with me in private. Everyone thinks I'm the problem. He is 34 and still heavily influenced by his mother and sister. It's been 2 years, and my mental health is deteriorating. My parents want me to give him another chance, but I can't. I want a divorce, but everyone urges me to reconsider. Is my decision correct?
10.26 PM - Dec 22, 2024