Today was the most embarrassing of my life😭 they thought I was shoplifting but it was my adult diaper

So today was so embarrassing for me 😭 and I just kind of wanted to get it off of my chest and just I don't know if other people ever experienced this. I'm a bit younger I'm only 27 but it's really embarrassing I have some issues with incontinence and so I have to wear like an adult diaper. Not like a pull-up kind it's like an actual diaper so they can be kind of bulky sometimes. I try to hide it but sometimes they can still bulge in the back of my pants pretty bad. Anyways I was at an Island Pacific supermarket and I don't know I just noticed like the One loss prevention lady had gone down the aisles near me quite a few times. I was kind of searching around for this one drink and kind of killing some time because I was at the laundromat next door and I was waiting for my clothes. And I asked one of the workers if they have the drink and he said no And while I was asking, I just noticed she was kind of behind me and really looking down on my butt in a way and I just thought maybe I was paranoid. But later I was at a thrift store and I ended up buying some pants. I didn't even go into any fitting rooms or anything but when I went to buy them she had made sure that there was another cashier with her I don't know why I guess just for backup. But while I was paying she straight up asked me she said. What's in the back of your pants? And I was so like overwhelmed and I was like wait what? And then she asked me again she's like what's in the back of your pants? And honestly I was confused and I was embarrassed and I was overwhelmed I was like what? And said for the third time she's like the back of your pants whats in your pants? And so I just kind of like whispered to her and I was just so embarrassed and I just said look I kind of have like a problem like holding when I go to the bathroom and so I kind of have to.... And then she was like oh I'm so sorry you don't even have to say anything it's okay. It's just that it's pretty bulgy back there and we just want to make sure you weren't taking anything. And honestly I felt like I wanted to cry and I was like no I promise nothing like that at all. And she's like no it's just we have to ask just cuz you know you're here shopping in the store and it's bulging 😭 and then I kind of quickly just got out of there and went home and just cried. And I'm not going to lie like when I looked at it I mean in a way I don't blame them cuz it's like I'm younger you wouldn't expect someone my age to have to be in diapers and like the back of my diaper was definitely kind of full so it was kind of drooping a bit. So in a way I kind of get it. But also like are they overreacting or like could I have done something different? I know sometimes when I get out of like my car my shirt gets like tucked in and so the waistband shows a little bit I don't know if like maybe she saw that it was like thinking it was something I don't know. It was just so embarrassing I don't want it to happen again 😭