How should I handle repaying my father's debt while facing marriage pressure?

I've never been in a relationship before. My main focus has been my career so I can help my father get out of his financial troubles. I earn a decent amount, but I don’t spend money on expensive gadgets, clothes, or other luxuries. The only thing I really love is traveling. Lately, I’ve been feeling extremely stressed about how I can pay off all the loans my father has as soon as possible. I’m not upset or angry about the situation itself, but I am frustrated with myself for not being able to resolve it faster. I know it will take at least 3-4 years to clear all the debts. Now, my mom wants me to get married, but I keep refusing because I don’t consider myself financially stable enough. I even tried dating apps, but unsurprisingly, that didn’t work out. Even though I’m living in a new city, I spend my weekends indoors to save money and focus on improving my skills. I see a lot of like-minded people in these posts. Any suggestions?