Went to a sex positive party with my girlfriend and I secretly wanted people to join us.

Just to clarify, a “sex-positive” party is not an orgy. It’s more like a regular party where people go to dance, but sex is also allowed. The first time we went to one was a couple of months ago in Berlin, at a club called KitKat. At first we were overwhelmed by the dress code and everything happening around us, but we ended up loving it. We spent most of the night dancing because we weren’t comfortable enough yet to have sex in that environment, but right before leaving we finally did, and it was amazing. Seeing people fucking and moaning right next to us was incredibly hot. When we came back home, we kept thinking and talking about it a lot. At some point I wanted to tell her that I wouldn’t mind inviting another couple to join us in that kind of setting, but I never brought it up. She can be a bit insecure sometimes, and I’m afraid she’d interpret it as “she’s not enough for me,” which honestly couldn’t be further from the truth. Last weekend we went to another party like that, this time in our own city. Surprisingly, it was just as good as the Berlin one, only smaller. We had an amazing time and ended up having sex three different times over the course of five hours. At one point there was a really attractive couple next to us who kept looking at us, but again, I didn’t have the courage to suggest anything more. We had so much fun, but I can’t stop wondering how exciting (or maybe not) it would be to add other people into the mix. The idea of seeing her with another guy while I’m with another woman honestly turns me on a lot.