All my closest people forgot my birthday

My best friend and my siblings all forgot my birthday. My parents had plans with me to celebrate but then my brother invited them over for dinner and they bailed on me. On the surface I seem really popular and I'm well loved in a lot of ways I think, but this feels pretty terrible. My husband and his best friend celebrated me which is lovely. Not even a text or a birthday meme from my loved ones though. My team at work forgot as well - I lead the charge to set up birthday cards for everyone else's birthdays. I'm realizing now that I don't even know how to ask for people to love me properly and I have no idea what can or should be expected. Am I too extra or are they giving too little? I'm sincerely just unsure at this point. Maybe it's just that I don't use social media like ig or FB so nobody gets reminders? I don't even know how to process this.