In my heart I’ve broken up my with my relatives but I’m forced to speak occasionally (formalities).

There’s a lady in my relatives whom I loved so much and even she used to but I don’t know what exactly went wrong. She and one other lady gossiped that I’m kinda a character less person who keeps moving around with family ladies and always sticks to them and then they spread this rumour throughout the family. By the way, I have always been more connected to females in general than a male, even in my family (I’m 23 male, India). So even ladies of the family used to love me a lot and I can’t even think the way that these two ladies tried to project me in front of others. And they did this thing when I was just 12 or 13 years old. I got to know about this thing just 2 years back because my mother didn’t wanted to tell me as she herself was so hurt upon knowing this thing and bashed both of them very badly on phone call while she was crying too. Also these were the ladies who called my sister as the dull dark girl and that her marriage would be very difficult in India because people prefer light coloured skin, basically skin colour shaming. Now what hurts me the most is that, all those relatives who heard this didn’t spoke a word in my defence. Only my mother, my maternal grandmother and one or two more people spoke in defence. The irony is the male members of the family who used to know each and everything surprisingly didn’t knew this thing. I really miss my maternal grandfather, he knew about sister’s case and took a very bold stand against it by bashing both of them. One of those lady is banned from coming to our house as per his order (Indian patriarchal family). He didn’t knew about my case but I know he loved me a lot and would have definitely took a very bold stand for this too. Tears in my eyes while I’m writing this because yes he was a patriarchal guy, kinda conservative and old thinking guy but he did took stand for right things. I wish he was here and I can share all of my things with him. He was also short tempered just like me, so his response towards things were quick and bold. And then my so called loving cousin brother who claimed to be there for me everytime didn’t say a single word and he never even shared it with me. Because his own mother was one of the ladies. These ladies went on to say characterless to other lady of my family too and when my cousin was asked upon this thing, he smiled and said that we can’t really do anything in that, move on. I have disconnected and broken my relation with my cousin too whom I still love for some reason but it’s not enough to connect again. Thanks for reading this! I feel a lot better writing it down here and sharing with you guys.