I can’t stand how sensitive the queer community has become

I am a 35f. For reference I don’t care if someone is gay, trans, etc. It doesn’t affect me, doesn’t bother me. My best friend growing up was gay, my cousin is gay/ wears makeup/ is an absolute doll, so on and so forth. Anyway, I came upon a post on a tattoo group. The picture: feminine looking abdomen, belly button ring, female presenting clothing. The OP was inquiring about the placement of a tattoo. The comments were riddled with people talking sh*t on the tattoo, and just being mean in general. My comment said “I think that it’s a beautiful tattoo, but if you ever decide to have children, pregnancy would absolutely wreck that piece!” based off of the placement. That is factual. Fine lines and intricate shading placed directly on the lower navel extending to the outer edges of the lower navel will in fact get warped by either c-section scar, the area being stretched excessively, or both. I get immediately, permanently banned. Why? Because I assumed OP’s gender. I click on their page and see that OP’s pronouns are “they/them” and OP is MTF trans. The other comments being hateful and disrespectful? Still there with no issues. Wtf? You look like a girl, are presenting as a girl, I am not having a long conversation with you so I’m lacking those details, and this is the internet. It was a simple mistake, I meant no disrespect, and I was genuinely warning about placement bc I have firsthand experience. No, I’m not a “terf”, I’m just having a hard time navigating the constant eggshells that I have to step on. There are plenty of women who can’t have children or who don’t want children. Biological males can’t have children. It’s whatever and I meant no offense. Pronoun culture is hard with no context. Am I supposed to start every single conversation out with “what’s your pronoun?” Because that’s absurd. Rant over Edit: I don’t mean the entire queer community bc I can’t edit my title. I dislike generalizations. Sorry everyone.