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My new boyfriend has a small penis.
Okay I know this is a bit of an awkward post but I needed to just get it out
My bf and I have been dating for 6 months now and talking for even longer. Over the last couple weeks we have finally taken a step further and have been sexual with each other. Things in our relationship have been really really good. We get along great, have similar interests, etc.
But the size of his penis took me by surprise and has caused some complications. I’ve obviously never said anything about this to him and don’t want to body shame him, obviously this isn’t his fault and I’d like to make things work with him. I can tell he is self conscious about so i definitely don’t want to make it worse for him in any way.
For some reference I would guess his size is around 3-4”. I’ve don’t have any experience when it comes to his size. For some things it’s fine but some positions can be a bit awkward or just flat out don’t work. I wanna suggest incorporating toys or something along those lines but we are still new in our relationship, especially sexually. Plus I don’t want to hurt his feelings. I’m also on the thicker side, not like fat but I have thicker thighs/butt. So I’m going to try to lose a little bit of extra weight and hopefully that’ll help a bit!
I’m thinking about having a conversation with him about it but I haven’t found a good way to bring it up. I don’t want to upset him it I wanna make things work.
7.10 AM - Aug 5, 2026