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EfficiencyVarious133

I woke up o him inside me.

TL;DR I woke up to him inside me. And we didn't talk about it before hand. How am I supposed to go about this. Let me start this off with saying I need some guidance because I dont know what to do. This morning at 4 am I woke up to my boyfriend (22 year old male) of 4 years inside of me (21 year old female). I was half awake and I went to feel down there and I was wet I thought I started my period early I was still in that state where I was still mostly asleep. Until I feel something inside me and realize that he is inside of me. I push him off of me and said wttf then I went to the bathroom to clean up. I don't sleep with underwear on at night ever unless I am on my period. And we have this thing where if we talk about him doing it while I am asleep we just talk about it and that’s where I would give consent or just say no. But never 4 am and never when I have to wake up super early for work. We didn't talk about it before hand or anything. But at 10 p.m he asked if I wanted to (having s3x while awake) and I told him no because I had to wake up super early for work. Yet at 4 am he is inside of me and I previously told him no. He said he was sorry and that he woke up and was really horny.He said I have all the right to be upset and mad at him. But I really don't know what to do because this has never happened before. I am at work now and I don't know what to say to him or what to do because I was SA back in 2021 and he was the one that helped me thru all of that. And he is getting pleasured often maybe 4 times a week and that doesn't include BJ's. So am I doing something wrong. I really don't know what to do or say to him. EDIT— Just because I wasn’t wearing underwear gives him the right to do that? A lot of women don’t wear underwear to sleep because of air flow. It reduces the chances of getting yeast infections or bacterial infections. I have been doing it for a while but that doesn’t give him the right to do it and I realize that now. Something is seriously wrong with some of y’all. Just because I wasn’t wearing underwear doesn’t give him the invitation to do that to me. I WAS ASLEEP AND HE STILL CHOSE TO DO THAT TO ME. When I get off of work I am going to have a conversation with him about it and see where it goes from there. Thank you. Update- I spoke to him when I got home and told him what he did was wrong. His reply was “Well we are dating so it doesn’t count.” After he said that I did leave I went and booked a hotel. I am in fact leaving him. Thank to everyone who really opened my eyes on this situation. To everyone else who was either rude or thinks this behavior is okay. 🖕🏽you. And to those people who reached out thank you and thank you for your kind words. Another thing I will address I am not going to the police about it. I live in a Christian small town and if I was to speak up I will get bashed and harassed. As much I would love a world that wouldn’t do that it will never happen. But if you are reading this and this is something you are going thru I hope you have the strength to speak up and you get the justice you deserve. Thank you.
10.52 AM - Aug 20, 2026

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