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As I don't have past relationships, I opted for an arranged marriage. In October 2023, I received a proposal. His job and family were okay, and my family asked me to meet him. They gave me permission to talk to him before saying yes. We discussed career goals, financial status, family backgrounds, and religious beliefs over the phone. When we met, I observed his behavior—it was good. We discussed family and hobbies. He seemed very interested in me. Before dropping me at home, he said yes to the marriage and asked me too. I said I would discuss it with my family and let him know. In the evening, I said yes to him. My family asked me to take more time, and after 15 days, we confirmed the proposal. Once the proposal was fixed, he started having sexual talks. I was not comfortable with this and told him I needed time. The next day, he did the same. When I asked for time, he said he couldn't wait and that I wasn't sexually attracted to him. I tried to be open for some days, but I couldn't. I got angry about his sexual talks. He was obsessed with me, but I wasn't. I told my family I didn't want to marry him because I was not comfortable. They said the proposal was fixed and asked me to take time and try to open up to him. I tried to talk to him romantically, but he then started demanding things like video calls and sharing naked pictures. He also admitted he watched porn. It was scary for me, so I decided to break the engagement. I told my family everything, and my father broke the engagement. After that, he called and texted me, saying he was obsessed with me and talked like that because I was his wife. He convinced me, and after that, he didn't push beyond my comfort. Still, we have many fights about time, family, and his joking nature, which irritates me a lot. I don't know how to handle myself. Now I have feelings for him and want to marry him, but we fight a lot, and I'm emotional and an overthinker. He always makes me cry over small things. I want a peaceful relationship. What should I do?
7.10 AM - Aug 5, 2026

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