Logo
Post
O

Ok_Entry4425

I(39) might have done something unethical that involves my wife(35)

So my(39) wife(35) does not speak my love language which is touch and physical affection. I know she loves me because she shows it in other ways(I can list them but it’s not the point). Whenever I kiss her she almost acts almost grossed out. She has always said she doesn’t like kissing. Or when we go to have sex she acts as if it is a chore (low libido). We do have 2 kids and she is tired doing all the things which I try to be understanding, but the reactions I get don’t make me feel good. I have talked to her about this before and it always gets brushed off. Even to the point of kind of making fun of me for pointing it out. She blames her hormones which again I try to understand. But one thing women don’t understand is that men TOO have hormones  that affect their mode.  So after many, many rejections over the years I think I have gotten to a breaking point. So here is the unethical part. I took a picture of both of us and put it in an ai platform. I typed “Take these two people and make them kiss passionately.” That’s it. I didn’t change how we looked at all, just kissing. Now the photo is of both of us about 5 years ago before we had kids. But it came out how I thought it would. It’s nice to see us kissing and not have this “sigh” before. I know a lot of people are going to think this is wrong. I am ready for the judgements. EDIT: Here is an FAQ for people asking similar questions: "How much do you do around the house?" I will admit I can always do "more" but I do a lot. I am the sole breadwinner (which isn't everything and I know taking care of the house is a lot!) but when I come home I take the children and play, do bedtime routines which are baths, pjs and bedtime stories. I clean and try to take loads off where I can. There have been times where I clean so much that she will get angry and tell me to stop because she feels bad.    "Does your breath stink?" I chuckled at this one. No it doesn't stink in general. I floss everyday. Brush twice a day and have frequent dentist appointments.    "Are you unattractive?" I work out multiple times a week and am pretty fit. So I would say no. I feel the issue is more mental.    "You just want Sex!" No, I would like kisses, handholds, and hugs. Kissing just came to mind when describing the situation. But it is not the only thing. I simply want some affection Without it being a chore. Just think for one moment, if you were me and your partner did this to you how would you feel?   "Love languages are fake." I don't really care. It's not the point. I miss the love and affection my wife and I used to have. That's the point.    "Hormones are a factor." I have acknowledged this and have pointed out below that in our society only one gender's hormones seem to be considered. Testosterone is a hormone that affects men very deeply. Ask any man out there what it is like. I am not diminishing anyone here. I am merely saying we all have to deal with what is going on in our bodies and simply ask for empathy between the sexes.    "Your wife is 'bad'. You should leave." My wife is very caring and a lovable person (when she is of course). She is also very beautiful which is why I made the edits of her and no one else. I love her and will never leave and I am not going to put her down anymore than I already have.
7.07 AM - Aug 5, 2026

Age Verification

This website contains content that may not be suitable for minors.

Are you 18 years or older?

By clicking "Yes", you confirm that you are of legal age to view this content.