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He called off our wedding. Now he wants second chance..

The guy and I met through Shaadi.com. After 2-3 months of talking, our parents visited each other’s houses. My mom was a bit skeptical about their household’s low income, as she is a single mother, but she was ready to support us in any way possible. Everything was going smoothly. However, after another 3 months—6 months after our initial meeting—the guy's mom called and said our kundalis didn’t match according to their astrologer. We had already matched our kundalis with our astrologer right after meeting, and they were compatible. My parents were on the verge of booking wedding venues, but when the guy's mom said this, my mom got a bit upset and questioned whether they ever truly intended to go through with the marriage. She felt it was just an excuse to back out, as throughout the 6 months, his mom rarely called mine, and it was always my mom who initiated contact. Additionally, when they visited my house, his sister asked why, as a high-status family, we were considering them. My parents had already answered the same question when we visited their house, saying it was my choice to pursue the match. After this heated discussion, the guy started criticizing my mom, saying she had been rude, and eventually called off the wedding because he didn’t like my mom's behavior. I even personally visited their house and apologized to his mom and sister if my mother’s behavior had come across as rude. However, they still felt my mom was unpredictable and controlling. I later found out that he had sought advice from his colleagues, who told him to stay away from my family because they believed my mom was controlling. Despite all this, he continued expressing his love for me. Now, he wants to talk to my family again to clarify his doubts about my mom’s behavior and whether she genuinely likes him. However, he insists that if his mom feels disrespected again, he will call off the wedding for good.
5.39 PM - Dec 22, 2024